Friday, May 29, 2015

The nafa violin journey

So we begin our journey at Nanyang Academy of Fine Arts (nafa) with Alyssa being accepted at the gifted young violinist class which starts late June. To tell the truth, i have heard nafa was a good art and music school before but i never knew they were that strict or regimented. So it is with much apprehension and trepidation as we embark on this unknown journey.

We always knew Alyssa was musically inclined, being able to play twinkle twinkle little star on keyboard even at 2+. So i always thought i should push her a little more. We started her on Yamaha keyboard lessons 2 months ago once she met the minimum age the school would accept. Having gone through the very same junior music course myself when i was a kid, yamaha was the natural choice. I did consider individual lessons but with Aly, i also wanted to give her more opportunities to interact with other kids and yamaha does build a good foundation too.

The yamaha lessons are going well but the pace is quite slow. But the good thing was Aly was enjoying the lessons and she initiates practice at home without us prodding. At this age, we really have no demands and we just want Aly to have fun. Because Aly only attends a 3 hour kindy, she does have a lot of time everyday to herself at home with grandma, so i guess she can be rather bored.

This sort of led me to post on facebook asking for genuine suggestions on gainful means to occupy Alyssa's time. An ex university mate pinged me and introduced me to the nafa program for kids and asked me to give it a try. Originally i did think of letting her do piano but got influenced by my mate, who asked me, why not violin, another instrument? Yep i thought, why not? Something i can't play for a change. :)

We paid $20 for the auditions held in May. Auditions are held only twice a year and the timing was around the week after i made that fateful fb post. Alyssa had to prepare one song, do an echo clap routine and also answer some simple questions on pitching. She was cool as a cucumber as usual and they loved her.

At the auditions however, daddy and i were both harrowed by an obvious tiger mommy pouncing on her poor kiddo to play her violin properly etc for the audition, threatening all sorts of punishment like throwing away her clothes and offering rewards like letting her go to her cousin's house. This went on for the whole duration we were there and the poor girl was just weeping...and playing the violin was not even part of the audition requirements! We felt so sorry for the little fella but that also kinda sent little warning messages to us of more ominous things to come.

Within a week, we had a letter in the mail informing us Aly was accepted and that we needed to attend an orientation at nafa that sunday at 6pm. Wow wow....dinner time on a sunday. It was no short briefing...the principal took us through a full blown presentation of the merits of the school and the mission of nafa, which is basically to train world class performers and not just any ordinary music school where students jut take exams and get their certificates. The disctinction rate last year was 100%, a jaw dropping world record.

Both parent and kid was going to have to be really commited throughout *gulp*. Daddy said he saw tiger mom somewhere down the corridor...not sure if it was a good or bad thing that poor kiddo did not get her clothes thrown away now that she is in. The teacher offered to bring us to one of the stores to get the kids measured and purchase the violins. It was 730, we were starving and we politely declined.

I understand they accepted 7 students per violin class out of the 33 who auditioned or i could have heard wrong.  Given their stringent ways, i suspect many more will fall out in the training process. Lessons are not allowed to be missed without good reason and all parent accompanied, no maids allowed. The teacher later said, one b+ and you are on probation, two b+ and you are out. The first stage performance is scheduled 3 months after classes start. Thankfully most of the kids were all aged four or five and clueless while our faces turn white as sheet. Or maybe only mine as most of the other parents kept their composure.

At this point, we think we will just let Alyssa go ahead with what I harmlessly started. Maybe there is a performer within her and i am the only one who thinks its a tad too crazy? After all the talents are all trained and moulded from a young age. Oh well...watch this space, we keep you updated when the lessons finally start. My old schoolmate assures me it is not as bad as it sounds. *fingers crossed*

Sunday, May 17, 2015

The Artist collection

Alyssa has been taking art classes for about half a year now...we started her again because of comments from a visiting auntie to Singapore that she was just sooooo bored at home since Aly only attends a 3 hour kindy versus a full day childcare.

Aly always loved drawing (although coloring not that much) so i wasn't surprised to see her enjoying her classes. What surprised me more was the lovely art pieces we were able to bring home and hang up on our walls. Each piece nicely laminated by the art school and brought back home weekly by the little tot. We hope she continues enjoy all her classes like she does now even as she grows older!

Monday, May 4, 2015

Birthday month activities

We still decided to go ahead and do a small party this year anyway....partly pressured by the kiddies. We had one cake for each, a disney princess for aly and a chuggingtom design for asher from bengawan solo. Cheap n good!

Ordered our favorite mee siam from royal cafe plus a couple of other bites, nene korean fried chicken and we were set. Oops almost forgot the delicious beef rendang dad cooked the evening before and macaroni soup for the kids.

This year we did it at my mum's house because there was just so much more space. We even rented some toys for the kids (swing n slide, ride on fire engine and a kitchen set). I threw in face paints for entertainment haha and there was bubble solution from the goodie bags so lots to do. Too lazy to organize any games though but at that young age, think the kids all dun need much to keep them busy!

I know alyssa definitely did enjoy herself. She still would not eat her birthday cake as does not like anything sweet but i know she loves the whole cake, candles and birthday song do. Asher was also already into candle blowing and of course, his whole face lights up whenever he sees caaaaaake....yuuuuummy!

Thanks to all the aunties and uncles for all the lovely presents. Lego, thomas the train, puzzles, books...what more can the 2 kiddos ask for. The group was also kept small so we adults could at least have some decent conversation, or at least as much as the kids would allow us to. Sadly, the aircon broke down and dang the sweltering midday heat, but still i think the kids had fun. And we managed to plan and execute something small and cosy without all that fanfare of full blown modern age parties with magicians and frozen themed everything...

Apart from the party, we brought Asher to the playhouse @ rochester on his birthday and brought Alyssa ice skating for the first time on hers. Each child had a home baked star shaped cream cake on their actual birthdays, shared with the family and in Aly's case, with her friends at school.

We also brought the kids out a lot this month...doing da little things we hope they would enjoy. Again, its not about what they would remember, but more about living to the fullest even in their childish innocence, before that complete awareness on reality sinks in as they grow up.

The kids grow up too quickly. Like every year, with every birthday candle blown, we silently wish they grow up happy and healthy. What is reasonable and we are able to provide, we will do our best and for the rest, you are in God's good hands. Have another blessed year ahead!